HOMECan anyone who was a victim of childhood neglect let me know if this applies to them too?
These are just some things i’ve noticed about myself that i haven’t really heard anyone talk ab before.
- i crave structure. I’m a messy person because i’ve never had anyone to tell me when to pick up after myself or how to clean certain items. I get weirdly jealous when i see parents telling their kids to pick up their toys or to only eat in the kitchen not the living room. I’ve always wanted someone to care enough about me in that sense.
- I do not know how to comfort others in the slightest since i’ve never been comforted myself
- opening up to people? never met her
- i’m too loud and obnoxious sometimes because i’m used to not being acknowledged and i overcompensate
- i lie about anything and everything even if it doesn’t benefit me because i think it will make people stay
- i get jealous at the smallest of things. i.e, parents bringing their child’s dinner to their room if they’re upset, family dinner in general
- i have 0 ways to cope with my emotions properly
- i don’t let anyone know about my interests because i think they’re embarrassing and no one will care/make fun of me
n e ways i just wanted to get that off my chest
